About loosers and outsiders

When you look around you see many people who surround you. Some of them are happy, rich and active others are weak, sad, poor and depressive.

In this short article I’ll tell you about my classification of loosers and outsiders.

Looser classification by Elena Surina.

Looser kind #1 – people who didn’t have a good start for their life. This means they lived in families with amoral parents, or their parents were alcoholic and drug takers. They grew up in the society of poverty and crime, they have never thought about any education. So now they look at you with anger and jealousy thinking that your good start given by your parents is the reason of your wellbeing. Take care, you may quickly became a victim of such persons who will be looking for some extra money.

Looser kind #2 – people with “bad luck”. Nice people, but they have no chance. They don’t get 0.0001 point to enter the university, they got into the rain before their first job interview, when they are sending some important papers on the deadline day the internet ends up, they loose their wallets and their cars get into accidents. Such people are very often sad and day by day they are waiting for a new disaster. Poor guys.

Looser kind #3 – frustrated people. They used to be happy. Some of them were good at the universities, some had prestigious jobs, and others experienced a real love and were happy thinking about their future family life. But then something happened! After university they didn’t manage to find a well paid job and they got into deep depression. Their very perspective companies got bankrupts and they had to sell a car and to move to a modest flat. The girlfriend found another guy and left. This people think that they have no chance in life, they always remember their happy days and they are sure that life is unjust. They are starting to belong to loser’s group number two. And such people live and wait for some new disasters to happen.

Looser kind #4 – jealous people. Such people seem to be happy. But deep inside they are destroying themselves. They thing that life is unjust, they are always sorrowful for themselves, but they do nothing to improve somehow the situation. They thing that it’s impossible to do something without someone’s help, that all reach and happy women are bitches who found a reach man, that all the rich men are someone’s sons who inherited all the wealth.  They don’t believe that clever and active people have a chance to prosper. This why they are staying at the same place, they hate people around them, they are passive and they are LOOSERS.

Looser kind #5 – social outsiders. They are not stupid, may be not poor. But the society doesn’t accept them. May be because of their appearance (ugly or too fat), or pronunciation defects, or sexual orientation…there are plenty of reasons to be rejected by our cruel society. This situation started at school when everyone tortured such people and they had no friends. They got a habit to live alone, to be closed to the society. Further, they had problems in universities, colleges, at job. They are always alone, no one calls them for their birthdays or just to ask how life is going. They don’t take part in corporative parties, no one takes care about them. Poor people.

Looser kind #6 – shy people. They are clever and may be beautiful. But they have some psychological problems – they are too shy. They always know they right answer or have the best solution for a problem but they keep silence and another person gets the benefits and promotion. They may love one person all the life but they don’t have enough force to tell about their love and this person will marry someone else. They are to shy to ask for a promotion or bonus, so they stay for years at the same position with low salary. They for sure need some professional help of a good psychologist.

Conclusion – you may always open and add some extra kinds to my classification. But remember that in most cases the reason of bad luck is your own fault. So, stop being depressive, find an occupation you like, travel, meet new people, if it’s really necessary – go to see a psychologist. But stop being a looser! It’s not in fashion.