Advices for losers and outsiders

In this post I’ll give advices for losers from different groups.

1)      No good start loser

I would like to say – develop yourself and never go to crime. But I imagine a person from poor quarter of the city, a person grown by crime and I understand that it’s almost impossible. So may be this person without good start should do some rap to be like famous black American stars Tupac or 50Cent   (they are sometimes involved into crime, but they are rich and happy). Actually I don’t see any reasonable solution for these people. I know that poor but smart people may get good education and start their own business or become famous. But people surrounded by crime, drugs and alcohol never think about education. And this kind of losers even don’t realize that they are actually losers.

2)      Bad luck loser

Stop being superstitious! You believe in bad luck and you meet everywhere this bad luck. If can’t stop this terrible thing yourself – go to a professional (psychologist)

3)      Frustrated loser

Try to start everything from the beginning. Try not to think about the past. Spend more time with friends and relatives, try to develop yourself, get more education, new job, write a book or find an interesting hobby. A good psychologist will be also very useful.

4)      Jealous loser

This terrible feeling of jealousy is in many cases incurable disease. If even a person achieve great results in career, love he will always find a reason to be jealous. I don’t like jealous people and I have no desire to give them advices – go to the church or psychologist.

5)      Social outsiders

I advice to prove to yourself and to your surroundings that you are the best! Don’t care about others just go your own way! Do something outrageous and extraordinary! Be unique.

Another variant is to change the society – to go to another city or country and to start from the beginning.

6)      Shy losers

Firstly you should consult a psychologist. Then try to communicate firstly with people you don’t know, because sometimes it’s easier to say something to a person you don’t know, because you know you will never meet he or her again. You may start with communication by internet. Then every day try to execute some small social achievements – to propose something at work or in the university, to prepare a small report, to a person the road or time, to make some jokes, to help someone. Try to be active. Do some volunteer activity this help to become closer to the society and to develop your social activity. And try to tell about your thoughts and proposals. One day you will catch your chance and your proposal will be the best.

Conclusion – loser is not a permanent condition. There is always a solution. The only thing – don’t be jealous because jealousy means to be looser all the life.